Christmas and New Year have just passed. You had a wonderful time with all the celebrations, food and parties. What do you think made you feel all warm and fuzzy inside?
It could be the relationships that you fostered and built during this season of goodwill. Some of these relationships made you feel very happy. It could have been that you renewed a friendship with someone whom you had lost touch with for a long time. Or it could be that you repaired a relationship with that someone who had been very close to your heart at one time. Or perhaps you met someone special and would like to have a further relationship with.
You have experienced something special this Christmas and New Year. It important that you capture this moment and cement the relationship you have repaired or built with that someone special. The gift-giving time is past but a love letter is something you can write and deliver as an after-celebration gift, without being too awkward.
Love letters are rather interesting. It is the only medium by which you can focus on 'you'. How being with the other person made you feel by being with them, in their presence or even just a thought of them. And in return, the solicits a reciprocal reaction.
Well, in this period of celebration - Christmas and New Year, there are bound to be many events which you can pick up on and use in your love letter. Be very focused on the event and describe how the event made you feel. The event can be an encounter, an introduction, a unique gesture and even an achievement which made you feel loved, proud, glad, happy or perhaps helped you view that someone in a different light.
Write your love letter focusing on that specific event. Write about the event as though you were telling a story to someone else. Finally, write how the event made you feel. And then finally, write what you want to do. Perhaps you want to see the other person more often or just want to keep in touch and never to lose contact with other person.
So, make the Christmas and New Year past even more special, and send a love letter to that someone special. It does not have to be a long one and you can get more pointers from my other articles in writing them. If you put in the right amount of effort, your relationship will continue to develop and who knows the relationship could blossom into something special forever.
Putting effort and mastering the art of writing one and sharing life's wonderful moments often bring lots of joy to both the giver and the recipient.
Think of your love letter as a means of capturing life's moments shared between you and the recipient. Try it and be amazed by its effects. The best part is it does not have to be costly or difficult to do, just a little effort on your part.
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